About Us

We began our website as a sex-toy blog. Over the years it evolved and, let's be honest, the blog is not so active anymore. In our defence, there's some great content here and how much have Rabbits and Wands really evolved over the last few years? We jumped on the Fifty Shades band waggon and began to gravitate towards spanking and Japanese erotic rope bondage - Kinbaku. But, you'll still find reviews of some of our favourite Sex Toys and Lingerie.


Who Are We?

We're Judy and Steve, a married couple from the north of England. Back in 2014, after eight years of marriage, an impulsive Christmas gift of a Rabbit (not the furry variety) opened our eyes to a range of adult play that we'd previously neglected. Put that together with the Fifty Shades phenomenon - yes, it's cool to be kinky - and a whole new world of ideas was opening up before us.

You can check out our interests via the links above, and if videos of a real-life couple indulging their favourite spanking fantasies sounds like your thing, visit our spanking video catalogue on BentBox.

If there's one thing to take away from this, it's that however great you think your sex life may be, there's always scope to spice things up with a bit more variety. Don't wait for eight years! Have a browse through our Articles section and see if something takes your fancy. Click on some of our recommendations and you never know where it might lead you.

How Can We Help?

If you think you might like to work with us and would like to know what we can offer, please refer to this page: How Can We Help?

How To Contact Us?

Either drop us a line via social media, see links in the footer, or you can email us using the address below:

info (at) steamybedtime.co.uk


  10/10/2016